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PROTECTION.

               Looking back through my blogs I notice the emphasis I have put on our human vulnerability to each other; how we are all affected by the people around us, near and far, especially where there is an emotional connection. Unfortunately, very few people understand or even accept such influences because those sensory perceptions were discouraged, mainly by the early church. The Roman Catholic Church recognised that mind-senses gave individuals direct access to the world beyond this physical one; often interpreted as direct access to God. The church considered this individual freedom to be unwise and not in the interest of the church.

 Opening out our sensory perceptions, seeking other worlds without first understanding how to protect ourselves, can be dangerous. This is as true today as it was in the early church, especially with so much violence and discord across the planet. Unfortunately, people tend to react badly when under pressure and because we attract to us what we are, we may unknowingly, give outlet to unseen, undesirable personalities.

  It is not enough to say a prayer for protection.  We have to be much more pro-active. Seeking to know and understand our own temperament; how we react in everyday situations, is the first step towards reversing a negative attitude towards other people and life in general. Slowly we begin to look at life in a different way, expecting the best, instead of dreading the worst. We attract to us what we are, so the kinder, more tolerant, more truthful and less interfering we are, the more we will attract beneficial influences to ourselves. Ultimately, we have to take responsibility for our own thoughts, words and actions.

 Sensitivity, one of our greatest assets, can be our worst enemy when it causes us to over-react. The way to gradually overcome this is through knowledge and understanding of human nature, not least our own; by developing greater insight, we also gradually gain far-sight which is invaluable to making the wisest decisions.  Sensitivity is an essential part of human nature, our survival and even our evolution because it gives us access to information that our physical senses cannot reach. The universal field of consciousness contains the history of the universe, just as every cell in our body contains the history of life and we are linked to this field of accumulated information; our past, our present and our future, by our mind-senses. Both past and future can resonate with the present.

  I am sure that many thousands of years ago early humans used the full range of their senses not only to survive but also enhance their sense of community and connections with their ancestors. I imagine there are still some peoples in remote parts of the world who still use these skills in their natural way of life. Their understanding of living with nature is well suited to small communities but much more difficult to apply in urban living, where the pressures are different. The violence across the whole world shows an urgent need for us to re-connect with our natural sensory skills in ways that will be beneficial not only to us, but all life on the planet. The change we need will only come about when we as individuals,  reconnect with our inner selves.

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INFLUENCES.

              Until we learn how to observe our own personality; how we as  individuals react to everyday situations, we will not be aware of  the influence other people  can have on us. Even then, we seldom recognise an influence, until after the event. A recent visit to my physiotherapist is a good example of how we can pick-up not directly person to person but through someone associated with that person. The moment I sat down in her consulting room tears poured down my face, I felt physically drained and at the end of my tether. Poor me! My therapist, who I‘ve known for some years, was immediately concerned, as I am normally full of life. ‘This is not like you’ she commented as she reached for the tissues. Suddenly, all those feelings left me and I returned to my normal self. It was not untill later in the day that I realised that I had probably been affected by someone associated with my physiotherapist. On my next visit I asked if she had a patient or relative,  someone around her who was in that state; tearful, full of self-pity and hopeless feelings. She replied ‘Yes, very much so.’

No matter where I go or who I meet, I instinctively tune into people I am engaged with. It is not intentional, it just happens. In the early days of human history; the days of the hunter/gatherer, this sensing would have been essential to their survival, giving additional insight into people and surroundings. A little incident shows how it happens. A man came to see me a little while ago. This middle-aged man was very attractive and was obviously a very out-going personality because I felt myself becoming very vibrant; chatting away; interacting very easily. I realised I was reflecting his personality; in reality he was seeing his own temperament acted out. However, I was very amused when the thought flashed telepathically through my mind ‘she’s making a play for me’!  This gave me some added insight into his temperament and made me smile because I am old enough to be his mother.

            It is difficult for people to grasp the extent I can be affected, even friends who have known me for years. On this occasion my therapist saw for herself how I must live another person’s life, if only for a few minutes, in order to understand how they truely think and feel.  It is always purposeful; usually someone is in need of support. This is possibly one of the many aspects of consciousness that we do not yet understand. How one person’s mental, emotional and physical state can transfer over onto another person, is a question for scientists to resolve. Physical life is governed by the laws of physics. What energy, which laws govern the non-physical aspects of life, such as consciousness? Hopefully some young, visionary bio-physicists will investigate these questions of consciousness and human sensory experiences as a natural part of  life and not as psychic phenomena.

Our brain is the physical mechanism through which non-physical consciousness manifests; thoughts, feelings, inspirations and perceptions, as well as dreams.

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SCANNING

 A couple of weeks ago I watched an interesting documentary on TV about horses – how they have evolved over millennia and yet retained their age-old instincts; how their sensitivity and intelligence serve them in their contact with us. I imagine that many people accept that animals ‘pick-up’ on our feelings and react to us according to what the sense. It was interesting to hear the word ‘scanning’ used to describe this ability to sense feelings and intentions. It occurred to me that ‘scanning’ is a good way to describe how we use our senses to assess the people we meet, just as animals do. This can be looked on as a first line of defence. I imagine that all living creatures have some form of scanning ability; using their particular senses to determine what is around them.

 Scanning and copying! In this technological age we all understand those terms and so it may help us to understand how we use our senses. A simple example would be meeting someone for the first time. Our scanning sense would be on alert, so as to scan and copy the mood of this new person and more importantly, their overall attitude to life. This copy transfers on to us and so allows us to read the mental and emotional state of this person, through our own mind and body. In other words, it is not reading another person at a distance; it is reading what is within ones self. The more experience of life we have, the wider the range of emotions we can understand. If we do not like the feelings and sensations copied, we pull away from that person just as a horse shies away from someone it does not trust. If however those feelings are compatible with our own, we move comfortably towards that person. Years ago I met an Indian woman scientist at a conference and though we only had a short time to chat and discuss ideas, we nevertheless hugged each other when we parted, as though we were sisters. This demonstrated how open to each other we were; our inner qualities as women were the same.

 On the other hand there was an occasion when I experienced the very opposite. A man came to see me and although he seemed very quiet and pleasant, he gave me with the most unpleasant twelve hours of my life. This was in the early days of my unfolding quest for knowledge and understanding and I was baffled to find myself in the blackest of moods, questioning all I held dear; my deepest convictions and allegiances. For several hours I strove to understand and finally came to the conclusion that this man had somehow attracted some very dark forces which had been further copied on to me. I struggled for hours to reason and lift away out from this blackness. It was years before I realised that the darkness was within the man himself; his very negative attitude to life: his obsessions, distrust, and suspicions; he used people without considering their needs or wishes. He trusted no-one; this was his way of life.

 We can see how a better understanding of our human senses is necessary if we are to withstand the influences of people like this man. He is not an exception, far from it! Many of the factors that controlled peoples’ behaviour in the past have gone; religion no longer provides the guidance that it once did and the community no longer acts as a control. The huge changes in our society experienced over the last thirty years in particular, have allowed children to take control and until we reverse this situation, society will continue in a downward spiral. Children are vulnerable and if we are to safeguard their and our future, we should try and understand the range of our human senses.

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HOW ABOUT THAT – I CAN FEEL YOU!

Why do we deny our human capacity to perceive the world around us with our more subtle senses, while at the same time accepting the wide range of senses exhibited throughout the animal kingdom, senses that we barely understand? We would have a better understanding of animal life if we learned to use our own subtle senses. However, to do this we need to learn how to recognise our mind-senses. I use the term mind-senses to differentiate from those physical senses that tell us about the world around us; tell us through sight, sound, smell, taste and touch. Our mind-senses give us an added advantage; they make us aware of factors and events not so readily available to us; past, present and future.

Whether we accept it or not, we all use these senses to some degree; much depends on our sensitivity, attitude to life and emotional state. Nevertheless we are all accustomed to that most basic means of communication – hairs rising at the back of our neck and shivers sweeping all through our body. No matter how we read these shivers, they are the simplest form of expression from a non-physical person, to someone still physical. Those shivers convey a variety of feelings that we can learn to understand.

We experience the world in our own particular way and according to our own skills. The way we use our sensory skills is very personal and determined by our temperament and inclinations . My life has been governed by a kind of ‘sensing but it was only in my forties that I began to realise how I ‘picked up’ on the personality of people around me – by ‘pick-up’, I mean that I start to act out a person’s temperament. By observing my words and actions, I have a pretty good idea of that person’s temperament.  Recently, I had an appointment with a man and the moment I saw him, I began to act out of character; drawing all the attention to myself and I remembered acting in the same way at a previous meeting.  He liked to be the centre of attention!

That kind of ‘pick up’ is immediate and obvious but there are occasions when it is not so clear. Some time ago I was visiting friends when I began to feel very uncomfortable in my stomach and gut. I had no option but to ask if anyone was suffering these symptoms? It was not clear then, but a few months later, one of the friends with similar sumtoms was diagnosed with cancer.

Pick-ups are not totally random – there is always a purpose. One time when we had a girls’ get-together, one of the women was pregnant. We had all been laughing and talking when I was suddenly overcome with birth pangs and found myself curled up and bearing down. Helpless with laughter, I warned them that the baby was going to come a lot sooner than was expected.

As with all things in life we can use our abilities for better or worse. Some years ago I started a counselling course at the local college and I recall the tutor teaching what was known as ‘reflecting’.  Two students sat facing each other, the one acting as the client had to make casual moves with our hands, feet as we all do, when talking to someone. The one acting as counselor was instructed to make the same movements, reflecting the actions of the other. This felt very strange to me because I have always reflected the person I am with, quite unconsciously. I was not happy with this deliberate form of manipulation and left the course. Reflecting another person in a totally unconscious way is nature’s way of showing sympathy, making the other feel more comfortable and at ease.

 

 

 

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MIND & BRAIN

Consciousness is very difficult to define. There have been countless debates on the nature of consciousness and where it is located. There are those individuals who are convinced that mind and brain are one and the same, whilst others are equally convinced otherwise.

My own experiences have shown that our brain is the physical means through which non-physical thoughts and feelings are expressed; in other words, find outlet through the immense complexity of out brain. We might visualise ‘brain’ as being the hardware and ‘mind’ as the software; an interaction between two separate but dependent parts.

Although MRI scans can highlight areas of the brain relating to particulat activities, I do not think that technology will provide answers to the nature of consciousness. I suggest that the subtle nature of both the conscious and unconscious minds can only be observed through subjective experience; each person taking note of the different influences acting through them. A consensus could be reached if a wide range of people across all cultures, learned to observe how other people can affect them, alive or dead, causing them to act out another personality rather than their own. Of course to do this we need to be aware of our own temperament; be able to differentiate.

My own experience has pointed to consciousness being a ‘field’ fundamental throughout the universe. Similar to an electrical field, we experience the effects it has on us, rather than see it. My own experience also suggests that consciousness as a universal field, would have evolved as the universe has evolved, becoming a store of accumulated knowledge throughout time and space; this ‘store’ becoming the reference point that all life, from the simplest to the most complex, resonates like with like and according to need.

Understanding this fundamental field may well provide answers to many human questions, for example, just how we develop in the womb, which finger, which toe;  our personality and our memories. It suggests a system of organisation that enables living systems to refer back to earlier, like systems in order to know how to proceed. I am reminded of how in our dreaming we are often reminded of our past, in order to project our future.  Even the evolution of  any species may well be partially due to a local need to survive, coupled with an influence from the future. What may appear to be the future to us, may well be past to other more advanced species within the universe.

I am not a scientist so have a very limited understanding of space/time. However my experiences  indicate there is no time or distance within this  field of consciousness. It is simply ‘now’.

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Horizon – BBC2

The Horizon program on BBC this week in which scientists, researching into our unconscious mind had some interesting results for anyone who is interested in the part played by our unconscious mind. They found that our unconscious mind rules us in ways never envisaged previously. This is very encouraging for those of us who are more aware that our unconscious mind gives rise to a whole range of perceptions and gives us access to a universal field of consciousness.

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