mind-senses

PROTECTION.

               Looking back through my blogs I notice the emphasis I have put on our human vulnerability to each other; how we are all affected by the people around us, near and far, especially where there is an emotional connection. Unfortunately, very few people understand or even accept such influences because those sensory perceptions were discouraged, mainly by the early church. The Roman Catholic Church recognised that mind-senses gave individuals direct access to the world beyond this physical one; often interpreted as direct access to God. The church considered this individual freedom to be unwise and not in the interest of the church.

 Opening out our sensory perceptions, seeking other worlds without first understanding how to protect ourselves, can be dangerous. This is as true today as it was in the early church, especially with so much violence and discord across the planet. Unfortunately, people tend to react badly when under pressure and because we attract to us what we are, we may unknowingly, give outlet to unseen, undesirable personalities.

  It is not enough to say a prayer for protection.  We have to be much more pro-active. Seeking to know and understand our own temperament; how we react in everyday situations, is the first step towards reversing a negative attitude towards other people and life in general. Slowly we begin to look at life in a different way, expecting the best, instead of dreading the worst. We attract to us what we are, so the kinder, more tolerant, more truthful and less interfering we are, the more we will attract beneficial influences to ourselves. Ultimately, we have to take responsibility for our own thoughts, words and actions.

 Sensitivity, one of our greatest assets, can be our worst enemy when it causes us to over-react. The way to gradually overcome this is through knowledge and understanding of human nature, not least our own; by developing greater insight, we also gradually gain far-sight which is invaluable to making the wisest decisions.  Sensitivity is an essential part of human nature, our survival and even our evolution because it gives us access to information that our physical senses cannot reach. The universal field of consciousness contains the history of the universe, just as every cell in our body contains the history of life and we are linked to this field of accumulated information; our past, our present and our future, by our mind-senses. Both past and future can resonate with the present.

  I am sure that many thousands of years ago early humans used the full range of their senses not only to survive but also enhance their sense of community and connections with their ancestors. I imagine there are still some peoples in remote parts of the world who still use these skills in their natural way of life. Their understanding of living with nature is well suited to small communities but much more difficult to apply in urban living, where the pressures are different. The violence across the whole world shows an urgent need for us to re-connect with our natural sensory skills in ways that will be beneficial not only to us, but all life on the planet. The change we need will only come about when we as individuals,  reconnect with our inner selves.

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HOW ABOUT THAT – I CAN FEEL YOU!

Why do we deny our human capacity to perceive the world around us with our more subtle senses, while at the same time accepting the wide range of senses exhibited throughout the animal kingdom, senses that we barely understand? We would have a better understanding of animal life if we learned to use our own subtle senses. However, to do this we need to learn how to recognise our mind-senses. I use the term mind-senses to differentiate from those physical senses that tell us about the world around us; tell us through sight, sound, smell, taste and touch. Our mind-senses give us an added advantage; they make us aware of factors and events not so readily available to us; past, present and future.

Whether we accept it or not, we all use these senses to some degree; much depends on our sensitivity, attitude to life and emotional state. Nevertheless we are all accustomed to that most basic means of communication – hairs rising at the back of our neck and shivers sweeping all through our body. No matter how we read these shivers, they are the simplest form of expression from a non-physical person, to someone still physical. Those shivers convey a variety of feelings that we can learn to understand.

We experience the world in our own particular way and according to our own skills. The way we use our sensory skills is very personal and determined by our temperament and inclinations . My life has been governed by a kind of ‘sensing but it was only in my forties that I began to realise how I ‘picked up’ on the personality of people around me – by ‘pick-up’, I mean that I start to act out a person’s temperament. By observing my words and actions, I have a pretty good idea of that person’s temperament.  Recently, I had an appointment with a man and the moment I saw him, I began to act out of character; drawing all the attention to myself and I remembered acting in the same way at a previous meeting.  He liked to be the centre of attention!

That kind of ‘pick up’ is immediate and obvious but there are occasions when it is not so clear. Some time ago I was visiting friends when I began to feel very uncomfortable in my stomach and gut. I had no option but to ask if anyone was suffering these symptoms? It was not clear then, but a few months later, one of the friends with similar sumtoms was diagnosed with cancer.

Pick-ups are not totally random – there is always a purpose. One time when we had a girls’ get-together, one of the women was pregnant. We had all been laughing and talking when I was suddenly overcome with birth pangs and found myself curled up and bearing down. Helpless with laughter, I warned them that the baby was going to come a lot sooner than was expected.

As with all things in life we can use our abilities for better or worse. Some years ago I started a counselling course at the local college and I recall the tutor teaching what was known as ‘reflecting’.  Two students sat facing each other, the one acting as the client had to make casual moves with our hands, feet as we all do, when talking to someone. The one acting as counselor was instructed to make the same movements, reflecting the actions of the other. This felt very strange to me because I have always reflected the person I am with, quite unconsciously. I was not happy with this deliberate form of manipulation and left the course. Reflecting another person in a totally unconscious way is nature’s way of showing sympathy, making the other feel more comfortable and at ease.

 

 

 

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